RSSMy boyfriend and I love to have phone sex when he’s away on business. The separation between us makes us want each other all the more, but sometimes we need an extra boost. This is where our version of role playing comes in.
During our normal sex life, we don’t go too crazy. But when we’re on the phone, we can let our imaginations run wild and talk about all of our fantasies. It helps to have distance between us because we don’t feel embarrassed. Also, neither of us has to try things we’re really not comfortable with.
Believe it or not, this actually helps our in-person sex life, too. We like to reminisce about what we talked about on the phone. Sharing our fantasies over the phone when there are miles between us helps to improve our real sex life when we’re together.